What a topic. Turns out I am not going to go out, I am not going to see my friends or family often, buy alcohol, go away on a holiday, use my passport, or leave the province!
I haven’t been to a funeral, or a birthday
party, or kissed my mom. I haven’t been able to hug my sisters or smile at a
stranger in the shops.
But what I have managed to do, is support. To
build new relationships. To strengthen old ones. To rediscover my family and what
they mean to me.
I have spent hours talking to people. Falling
in love with hearts. With fighting spirits. With brave and strong men and women.
Watched people’s eyes. Seen their pain. Their frustration. Their loss and their
fear. Seen how they get up, and move forward, and persevere. And smile through
their eyes, determined that tomorrow will be a better day.
I have learned that my own company is
pretty good. That I am okay on my own, and that I will always be okay. That the
people I spend my time with, I choose to do so. That just as I am so fortunate to
be surrounded by them, they are lucky to have me in their lives. That I bring
sunshine and not rain as much as possible. That I will build up and support
where I can and not tear down with words or actions. And that I am never going
to underestimate who I am again.
I am not going to have unspoken words on my
heart or regret in my soul. I am never going to live for yesterday again but always
for today. Because that is my present.