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Saturday, April 23, 2022

What advice would you give to your younger self

 

What a hard question to answer. I would love to protect myself from all the heartbreak. Stop myself from walking down the paths that would just lead to sadness and disappointment. Avoid meeting the wrong people and making devastating decisions. Ones that would have an impact on my life forever.

 

However, without these I would never have learned the very valuable lessons I have in my life.  I would never have known what was good. I would never have known what made me happy. I would never have known what to stay away from and where to gravitate. I would not have known how to fill my cup and how to keep my heart safe.

 

So I guess that my advice would not be around what to do and where to go. It would be about my state of mind. And my state of self. I would have reassured myself from a young age that no matter how many people say they don’t love me, I will always be loved by ME. That no matter how unstable the world around me felt, the Universe would always have my back. And when I fell, I would still be able to see the stars. That the people that I met along my journey would be my greatest teachers. My greatest allies. My greatest deceptors. My biggest hurts and my biggest loves. Just to always remember that everything I needed was right inside. And I only had to reach inside and it would be right where I needed it to be.

 

And always just to be kind to myself. I am doing the very best I can.